I have already experienced several times through my work as a tantra teacher and in my long love relationship with my husband that one can learn a lot. Even things that are not so easy to do from the start. But that I would play golf one day is the greatest miracle of my life. Because I really was an absolutely hopeless case. That came out in a taster course. "Not everyone has to learn golf!" the golf instructor said to me while he admired my husband, who was already chasing balls to dizzying heights the first time. HE is a real natural talent, attested to my husband's golf instructor. I was fine. That was about 15 years ago and I wasn't interested in golf at all anyway. But my husband started this hobby. Now and then he let it be known how nice it was when couples went for a walk together. "No chance!" I always replied. So many years passed. Once I didn't have a brilliant idea what to get him for his birthday. Daringly, I gave him a voucher so that I would attend three taster courses in golf. I wanted to get rid of the issue. Because it would certainly come out that I didn't have a bit of talent. Sport in all its forms is not one of my core competencies. And so I completed the three taster courses. It actually turned out that I was kind of a hopeless case. I didn't hit a ball and instead hacked a lot of holes in the grass. Actually, that could have been it. But no. Somehow I suddenly got excited. Labeled as a hopeless case, I wanted to prove to myself and the world that anyone can learn anything - even if it looks completely impossible. I just had to practice a lot more than others. And then I started. I practiced and practiced and practiced, and I was really desperate at times because the balls just wouldn't fly. In the meantime 5 years have passed with many trainer hours and diligent practice. Of course I'll never be a golf star - that wasn't the goal either. But I can play. My handicap is now 32. I'm very proud of that as a hopeless case. And sometimes my husband is amazed: "That was just a real golf swing!" - if I land a super hit. Is there an area in your life where you could develop despite all your reservations? In terms of movement, golf is one of the most difficult sports. A little learning about love, lust and partnership is really easy compared to that, isn't it? And above all, the fruits come much, much faster.