Many women don't take it easy when it comes to taking the lead in bed. But rarely does the man lead in a way that makes them happy and fulfilled. An easy way to learn to lead physically is to lead in dance.
A music that is not too wild supports this. The palms are together and the woman best closes her eyes. Otherwise she will immediately change her behavior and leadership if the man doesn't look too pleased. It is absolutely important not to want to please the man, but to pay attention to your own body impulses. In this respect, the one who ultimately leads also follows, namely himself and his own body perceptions.
The man is allowed to let himself be guided and listens only to her impulses. After a few minutes you can switch, so that the man then leads. This is easier for most people because of habit.
This exercise can be wonderful. At the same time, however, all of your couple mechanisms can also come to light. If you can look at them benevolently, change and growth is easy.