Do you know that when someone hugs you, they lean too hard on you and, so to speak, cling to you? In order for a heart hug to succeed, both must stand on their own feet and only give a little weight to the other. It should be about the same. In this way you can support yourself and give each other support without burdening the other. You can see how it works in this little video. Have you already had experience with the heart hug? How do you feel when someone hugs you and hugs you?